One life lesson I’m continuously developing is to stay in my lane. Whether it’s at work or my personal life. By staying in my own lane, I can avoid unneeded heartache, or unwanted drama. It is easier said than done, though.

There’s a TikTok video that’s already viral. The “Let Them” poem by Cassie Phillips really is about this ideology of staying in your own lane.

Let’s break down this poem to examine it closer.

Let Them by Cassie Phillips

Just Let them.

If they want to choose something or someone over you, LET THEM.

If they want to go weeks without talking to you, LET THEM.

If they are okay with never seeing you, LET THEM.

If they are okay with always putting themselves first, LET THEM.

If they are showing you who they are and not what you perceived them to be, LET THEM.

If they want to follow the crowd, LET THEM.

I know I’m comfortable with this idea. It seems to me that most people are not. That they continue to hold on toxic relationships for being alone.

If they want to judge or misunderstand you, LET THEM.

If they act like they can live without you, LET THEM.

If they want to walk out of your life and leave, hold the door open, AND LET THEM.

Let them lose you.

You were never theirs because you were always your own.

So let them.

This verse summarizes my love life, or lack thereof. I won’t beg for attention or time after I’ve requested it once. I usually state what are the deal breakers are at the beginning of the relationship.

Let them show you who they truly are, not tell you.

Let them prove how worthy they are of your time.

Let them make the necessary steps to be a part of your life.

Let them earn your forgiveness.

Let them call you to talk about ordinary things.

Let them take you out on a Thursday.

Let them talk about anything and everything just because it’s you they are talking to.

Let them have a safe place in you.

Let them see the heart in you that didn’t harden.

Let them love you.

The popularity of the “Let Them” poem can be attributed to its relatable message and universal theme. The poem resonates with many people because it addresses the idea of letting go of things or people that no longer serve us, and focusing on our own well-being instead. Its empowering tone encourages readers to prioritize their own happiness and not be affected by the actions or opinions of others.

This message of self-care and personal growth has struck a chord with a wide audience, leading to its popularity. So if I stay in my lane, I can really adhere to these suggested ideas.

‘los; out